Sunday, November 9, 2008

Parents and Children Relationship

What are parents? What are children? I am sure we all know what are there but do we know the true meaning. Parents is something more than just being our biological parents. Parents are people who take care of us and put the children's importance first before theirs. Besides that, parents have to carry out their responsibility in taking good care of the kid well till they are old.

Well you see nowadays kids always care about whether their parents are real parents or not. Once they find out that their parents who are taking care of them all this while are not really biological parents, they think that their parents have cheated them and didn't tell them the truth. Then, they go and search for their parents who have the same dna with them. Stupid huh. The thing is it is not important whether both the parent and children have a blood relationship, the thing that matter most is that the parents love their children and always will.

The parents also have to learn that even if their children aren't really their kids, they still have to take care of them and continue loving them. Do not abuse or mistreat them. It is always a joy to take care of kids, whether biological or non-biological. Once you develop a bond with the children, you will come to learn that the dna result on the paper isn't really important. Both parents and children have to accept each other willingly. Easy to say hard to do. If you come to learn that your parents are not your natural parents, I am sure it will psylogical setback but do remember what they did for you and in time to come, you can just get over it. It might take a months or years but that doesn't matter. I really hope that all parents will treat their children with care and the children be obedient to their fathers and mothers who have sacrifice time and money for you. If your parents mistreat you, then remember you have God by your side and you might find better parents in the future. Cheers...